BOOKS AND ESSAYS

The books behind
the practice.

Each book gives a relationship its own questions: a couple, founding partners, a leadership team, a circle of friends.

When a Council is Director-led, the book becomes part of the practice: your private questionnaire helps the Director choose the exercises for your day, and the book stays with you for the seasons after.

THE BOOKS

One practice,
in five books.

Cover of The Third Field by Paul Mola

THE THINKING BEHIND THE PRACTICE · PUBLICATION · OCTOBER 27, 2026

The Third Field

Where apparent agreement becomes real alignment. The space between people: what is heard, what stays unspoken, and what an agreement asks of the people who carry it.

The ideas behind every Council, Map and team programme.

About the book
Cover of The Third Field Couples Workbook

FOR COUPLES · PUBLICATION · OCTOBER 27, 2026

The Third Field Couples Workbook

The life you share keeps changing. Make room to change with it. Begin privately, share only what you choose, and try one small change together.

Included with the Union Covenant and guided Couples Councils.

Try selected exercises
Cover of The Circle of Friends Workbook by Paul Mola

FOR FRIENDS AND CHOSEN FAMILY · PUBLICATION · OCTOBER 31, 2026

The Circle of Friends Workbook

For the friendships that carried you. Remember what you share, recognize what each person has given, and make room for who you are now.

Included with Director-led Long Table gatherings.

Meet the Long Table
Cover of The Co-Founder Covenant

FOR FOUNDING PARTNERS · PUBLICATION · OCTOBER 27, 2026

The Co-Founder Covenant

Your company will change. Build a partnership that can. Make purpose, contributions, risk and decision rights explicit as the venture grows.

Included with Leadership Councils for founding partners.

About the book
Cover of The Team Alignment Charter

FOR LEADERSHIP TEAMS · PUBLICATION · OCTOBER 27, 2026

The Team Alignment Charter

The meeting ends. The same friction returns. See the decisions, handoffs and working arrangements that shape an ordinary week, and choose a small change to return to.

Included with Leadership Councils for teams.

About the book

ESSAYS

The thinking
behind the gathering.

FRIENDSHIP

The Friendships That Carried Us

On chosen family, the missing rituals of friendship and making time to recognize each other.

Read the essay

LEADERSHIP

The Rooms Where Strategy Can Tell the Truth

On strategic friction, decision rights and the conditions that help leaders speak honestly.

Read the essay

LEADERSHIP & JUDGMENT · THE THIRD FIELD

What the Yes Left Out

The vote said yes. The team meant different things. The business cost began when those differences disappeared from the record.

Read on thethirdfield.com

FROM THE RECORD · THE THIRD FIELD

Decisions That Left a Record

Seven decisions from the public record, read for what happened between the people who made them.

Read the cases